"When they told me my new-born babe was a girl, my heart was heavier than it had ever been before. Slavery is terrible for men; but it is far more terrible for women"
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The intent is strategically unsparing. By conceding that slavery is "terrible for men" before insisting it is "far more terrible for women", she refuses a single-axis narrative of suffering without turning it into a competition. The subtext is accusatory: any reader who can imagine the pain of a parent fearing for a child is forced to confront how slavery corrupts the most socially sanctified bond. This is abolitionist rhetoric that doesnt rely on abstraction or policy; it weaponizes intimacy against denial.
Context sharpens the blade. Jacobs wrote as someone whose own life was shaped by sexual harassment, concealment, and maternal bargaining under bondage. Her phrasing makes the gendered violence of slavery legible to audiences who might tolerate brutality in the field but recoil at violation in the bedroom. The sentence is designed to collapse that moral distance - to make "girl" sound like a sentence handed down at birth.
Quote Details
| Topic | Human Rights |
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| Source | Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl, Written by Herself — Harriet A. Jacobs, 1861 (autobiographical slave narrative). |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jacobs, Harriet Ann. (2026, January 14). When they told me my new-born babe was a girl, my heart was heavier than it had ever been before. Slavery is terrible for men; but it is far more terrible for women. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-they-told-me-my-new-born-babe-was-a-girl-my-146359/
Chicago Style
Jacobs, Harriet Ann. "When they told me my new-born babe was a girl, my heart was heavier than it had ever been before. Slavery is terrible for men; but it is far more terrible for women." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-they-told-me-my-new-born-babe-was-a-girl-my-146359/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When they told me my new-born babe was a girl, my heart was heavier than it had ever been before. Slavery is terrible for men; but it is far more terrible for women." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-they-told-me-my-new-born-babe-was-a-girl-my-146359/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



