"When traveling with someone, take large does of patience and tolerance with your morning coffee"
About this Quote
Hayes, an actress who spent a lifetime in rehearsal rooms and on tour, is writing from the lived reality of schedules, shared spaces, and the slow grind of logistics. Travel isn’t the glamorous montage; it’s the airport line, the missed turn, the different definition of “ready,” the partner who wants conversation when you want silence. By placing the advice in the morning, she points to the moment when ideals about being “easygoing” collide with raw temperament. You don’t need grand moral principles; you need coping skills before 9 a.m.
The charm is that it doesn’t scold. It normalizes friction without romanticizing it, implying that even good relationships require a kind of daily maintenance - a small, preventative act. Coffee becomes both literal and symbolic: a social lubricant, a personal reset button, and a reminder that generosity is often a choice you make before you feel generous.
Quote Details
| Topic | Travel |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hayes, Helen. (2026, January 17). When traveling with someone, take large does of patience and tolerance with your morning coffee. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-traveling-with-someone-take-large-does-of-28669/
Chicago Style
Hayes, Helen. "When traveling with someone, take large does of patience and tolerance with your morning coffee." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-traveling-with-someone-take-large-does-of-28669/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When traveling with someone, take large does of patience and tolerance with your morning coffee." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-traveling-with-someone-take-large-does-of-28669/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







