"When we awaken, we cannot account for the time spent. We simply don't remember. About the only evidence we have of experiences while we were asleep is when we happen to remember a dream"
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The pronoun "we" matters. Reed isn't reporting a quirky personal sensation; he's drafting a shared condition, almost a civic fact. That collectivizing move turns private amnesia into existential infrastructure: consciousness is porous, continuity is a story we tell ourselves each morning. The line "We simply don't remember" lands with a shrug that reads like defense. If there's nothing to remember, there's nothing to answer for.
Then he offers the lone loophole: dreams as "evidence". The word is slyly legalistic, implying a trial where the self must prove it existed while absent. But dreams are the worst kind of evidence: fragmentary, symbolic, easily dismissed, and yet emotionally persuasive. Reed's subtext is that the psyche doesn't stop working when the rational mind clocks out; it just produces artifacts in a language the waking world pretends not to speak.
Contextually, Reed writes from a 20th-century Britain steeped in psychoanalysis, war memory, and a growing suspicion that the mind is not a unified narrator. The quote presses on that suspicion: most of our lives are unrecorded, and the only traces arrive as weird, luminous fictions.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Reed, Henry. (2026, January 17). When we awaken, we cannot account for the time spent. We simply don't remember. About the only evidence we have of experiences while we were asleep is when we happen to remember a dream. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-awaken-we-cannot-account-for-the-time-54926/
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Reed, Henry. "When we awaken, we cannot account for the time spent. We simply don't remember. About the only evidence we have of experiences while we were asleep is when we happen to remember a dream." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-awaken-we-cannot-account-for-the-time-54926/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When we awaken, we cannot account for the time spent. We simply don't remember. About the only evidence we have of experiences while we were asleep is when we happen to remember a dream." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-awaken-we-cannot-account-for-the-time-54926/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




