"When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure"
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Marshall is selling hardship not as a glitch in the system but as the system. The line works because it flips the usual prayer for ease into a prayer for perspective: if you want a life without difficulties, you’re not just asking for comfort, you’re asking to be underbuilt for reality. By reaching for oaks and diamonds, he chooses images that feel indisputable and physical, not theological. That’s the subtextual maneuver of a savvy clergyman in a modern, skeptical age: smuggle a spiritual argument inside natural “proof.”
The intent is pastoral and corrective. “Remind us” frames suffering as forgetfulness rather than failure. Difficulty isn’t a sign you’ve been abandoned; it’s a sign you’re being formed. It’s also a communal line - “us,” not “me” - implying a congregation (or a nation) tempted by self-pity, needing a shared story sturdy enough to hold anxiety.
Context matters: Marshall’s career lands in the Depression-World War II stretch when endurance becomes a civic virtue and pain needs a moral vocabulary that doesn’t sound like fatalism. His metaphors echo wartime rhetoric without the militarism: pressure, wind, forging. There’s comfort in that toughness, and a challenge: stop interpreting hardship as an interruption to your “real life.”
Still, the quote’s elegance hides a provocation. Oaks may grow strong in wind, but they also snap; pressure makes diamonds, but it also crushes. Marshall’s pastoral gamble is that the promise of meaning can keep people standing long enough to become what the storm demands.
The intent is pastoral and corrective. “Remind us” frames suffering as forgetfulness rather than failure. Difficulty isn’t a sign you’ve been abandoned; it’s a sign you’re being formed. It’s also a communal line - “us,” not “me” - implying a congregation (or a nation) tempted by self-pity, needing a shared story sturdy enough to hold anxiety.
Context matters: Marshall’s career lands in the Depression-World War II stretch when endurance becomes a civic virtue and pain needs a moral vocabulary that doesn’t sound like fatalism. His metaphors echo wartime rhetoric without the militarism: pressure, wind, forging. There’s comfort in that toughness, and a challenge: stop interpreting hardship as an interruption to your “real life.”
Still, the quote’s elegance hides a provocation. Oaks may grow strong in wind, but they also snap; pressure makes diamonds, but it also crushes. Marshall’s pastoral gamble is that the promise of meaning can keep people standing long enough to become what the storm demands.
Quote Details
| Topic | Resilience |
|---|---|
| Source | Attributed to Peter Marshall (1902–1949); appears on his Wikiquote page (no original primary source cited there). |
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