"When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure"
About this Quote
The intent is pastoral and corrective. “Remind us” frames suffering as forgetfulness rather than failure. Difficulty isn’t a sign you’ve been abandoned; it’s a sign you’re being formed. It’s also a communal line - “us,” not “me” - implying a congregation (or a nation) tempted by self-pity, needing a shared story sturdy enough to hold anxiety.
Context matters: Marshall’s career lands in the Depression-World War II stretch when endurance becomes a civic virtue and pain needs a moral vocabulary that doesn’t sound like fatalism. His metaphors echo wartime rhetoric without the militarism: pressure, wind, forging. There’s comfort in that toughness, and a challenge: stop interpreting hardship as an interruption to your “real life.”
Still, the quote’s elegance hides a provocation. Oaks may grow strong in wind, but they also snap; pressure makes diamonds, but it also crushes. Marshall’s pastoral gamble is that the promise of meaning can keep people standing long enough to become what the storm demands.
Quote Details
| Topic | Resilience |
|---|---|
| Source | Attributed to Peter Marshall (1902–1949); appears on his Wikiquote page (no original primary source cited there). |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Marshall, Peter. (2026, January 14). When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-long-for-life-without-difficulties-remind-106321/
Chicago Style
Marshall, Peter. "When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-long-for-life-without-difficulties-remind-106321/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-long-for-life-without-difficulties-remind-106321/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.












