"When we love anyone with our whole hearts, life begins when we are with that person; it is only in their company that we are really and truly alive"
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The subtext is both tender and risky. Tender, because it dignifies attachment as formative, not accessory: the beloved isn’t a pleasant addition to life but the condition that sharpens it into focus. Risky, because the metaphor quietly relocates agency. If life “begins” only when you are with someone else, then solitude becomes a kind of non-life, and ordinary personhood gets demoted to waiting room status. That intensity is part of the rhetoric’s appeal: it flatters the listener with significance, making love sound like a sacrament.
Context matters. Barclay wrote in a 20th-century Christian milieu that prized fellowship, community, and an active, lived faith; “company” is not incidental diction. He suggests aliveness is relational, not self-generated, echoing a theological anthropology where humans are most fully themselves in communion. Read generously, it’s an argument against sterile individualism. Read skeptically, it teeters into romantic absolutism, where the beloved substitutes for God and dependence masquerades as spiritual depth.
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| Topic | Soulmate |
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| Source | Verified source: The Complete Idiot's Guide to World Religions, 4th Edition (Brandon Toropov, Luke Buckles, 2011)ISBN: 9781101514764 · ID: ngHdleW0DwgC
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... When we love anyone with our whole hearts, life begins when we are with that person; it is only in their company that we are really and truly alive ... William Barclay. Islam. and. the. Afterlife. The Qur'an , the holy book of Islam , ... |
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Barclay, William. (2026, February 19). When we love anyone with our whole hearts, life begins when we are with that person; it is only in their company that we are really and truly alive. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-love-anyone-with-our-whole-hearts-life-160241/
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Barclay, William. "When we love anyone with our whole hearts, life begins when we are with that person; it is only in their company that we are really and truly alive." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-love-anyone-with-our-whole-hearts-life-160241/.
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"When we love anyone with our whole hearts, life begins when we are with that person; it is only in their company that we are really and truly alive." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-love-anyone-with-our-whole-hearts-life-160241/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.











