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Motivation Quote by Billie Jean King

"When we reach the point where the women athletes are getting their pick of dates just as easily as the men athletes, then we've really and truly arrived. Parity at last!"

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King slips a cultural litmus test into a punchline: equality isn’t measured only by prize money or rankings, but by the petty social perks that trail male athletes like free merch. “Pick of dates” sounds almost throwaway, the kind of locker-room brag that’s supposed to be harmless. That’s the point. She’s spotlighting how sexism lives in the “small” stuff people don’t legislate - who gets admired, who gets pursued, who is assumed to be the prize rather than the pursuer.

The joke works because it weaponizes a familiar, slightly cheesy metric of stardom and flips it. Men in sports are granted automatic desirability; their success converts cleanly into status, attention, sexual freedom. For women, achievement has historically come with qualifiers: suspicion, policing, jokes about femininity, and the constant expectation to be grateful for crumbs. King is arguing that parity has to include the social imagination - the reflexive way crowds, media, and peers assign value.

Context matters: King wasn’t only winning Wimbledon; she was publicly forcing America to watch gender roles crumble in real time, especially around the 1973 “Battle of the Sexes” and the broader push for women’s professional tennis and equal pay. Her line carries a sly bitterness: if we’ll only believe women have “arrived” when they receive the same flirtatious entitlement men enjoy, then we’re admitting how deeply we’ve tied athletic greatness to masculinity.

“Parity at last!” lands as both celebration and indictment - a reminder that equality isn’t complete until women’s success produces the same uncomplicated cultural reward.

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King, Billie Jean. (2026, January 14). When we reach the point where the women athletes are getting their pick of dates just as easily as the men athletes, then we've really and truly arrived. Parity at last! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-reach-the-point-where-the-women-athletes-139503/

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King, Billie Jean. "When we reach the point where the women athletes are getting their pick of dates just as easily as the men athletes, then we've really and truly arrived. Parity at last!" FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-reach-the-point-where-the-women-athletes-139503/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When we reach the point where the women athletes are getting their pick of dates just as easily as the men athletes, then we've really and truly arrived. Parity at last!" FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-reach-the-point-where-the-women-athletes-139503/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

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Billie Jean King (born November 22, 1943) is a Athlete from USA.

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