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Daily Inspiration Quote by B. F. Skinner

"When we say that a man controls himself, we must specify who is controlling whom"

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Skinner’s line pricks a cherished modern myth: that “self-control” is a single, unified little captain steering the ship. His move is slyly grammatical. The phrase “a man controls himself” smuggles in two actors while pretending there’s only one. Skinner forces the hidden split into daylight: if there’s a controller and a controlled, what exactly are we talking about? A homunculus in the head, pulling levers? Or a bundle of competing impulses managed by rules, habits, and consequences?

The intent is behavioral and political at once. In Skinner’s worldview, talk of inner willpower often functions as a conversational shortcut that blocks real explanation. Calling someone “disciplined” doesn’t describe a cause; it praises an outcome and implies a moral essence. Skinner wants you to look at the machinery: reinforcement histories, environmental cues, and learned strategies that let one set of behaviors suppress or redirect another. “Self-control,” then, is less a heroic inner duel than an arrangement of contingencies: you hide the cookies, delete the app, move your run shoes by the door, seek accountability.

The subtext is also a critique of blame. If control is an internal sovereign, failure becomes sin. If control is a relationship between behavior systems shaped by context, responsibility shifts toward design: what conditions make restraint likely, and who has the power to set those conditions? Written in the mid-century behaviorist moment, it’s Skinner’s quiet provocation against mentalistic explanations - and an invitation to see the “self” not as a ruler, but as a system being engineered, for better or worse.

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Skinner, B. F. (2026, January 15). When we say that a man controls himself, we must specify who is controlling whom. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-say-that-a-man-controls-himself-we-must-173432/

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Skinner, B. F. "When we say that a man controls himself, we must specify who is controlling whom." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-say-that-a-man-controls-himself-we-must-173432/.

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"When we say that a man controls himself, we must specify who is controlling whom." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-say-that-a-man-controls-himself-we-must-173432/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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B. F. Skinner

B. F. Skinner (March 20, 1904 - August 18, 1990) was a Psychologist from USA.

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