"When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves"
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The subtext is transactional, but in a way that tries to stay morally clean. Ward isn’t pitching selflessness that ignores self-interest; he’s arguing that the route to self-improvement runs through other people. If you practice reading others charitably, you rehearse the same muscles you need to live better: restraint, curiosity, humility, the ability to revise a first impression. “Somehow” does sly work here, smoothing over the mechanism so the claim feels like lived wisdom rather than a social-psychology diagram. It also leaves room for the almost mystical feedback loop many people recognize: praise that becomes prophecy, trust that invites trustworthiness.
Contextually, Ward wrote in the mid-century American tradition of motivational, character-forward writing: a culture steeped in civic uplift, church-adjacent ethics, and workplace pep-talk humanism. The line functions as a piece of portable leadership advice before “leadership” became an industry. It’s also a gentle rebuke to status anxiety. In a world that rewards suspicion and hot takes, Ward proposes a counter-tactic: treat people as more than their worst moment, and you may find yourself forced to become the kind of person who can.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
| Source | Quote attributed to William Arthur Ward; listed on Wikiquote (William Arthur Ward). |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ward, William Arthur. (2026, January 15). When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-seek-to-discover-the-best-in-others-we-12277/
Chicago Style
Ward, William Arthur. "When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-seek-to-discover-the-best-in-others-we-12277/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-seek-to-discover-the-best-in-others-we-12277/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












