"When we separated, I did not want to get in a slugfest. I had to take the high ground"
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“I did not want to get in” matters as much as the noun. The metaphor implies the ring was already set up around her, that the media ecosystem (and arguably the power imbalance of the relationship) was engineered to make conflict inevitable. Her choice is presented as strategic restraint, not passivity. Then comes the moral geometry: “the high ground.” It’s a phrase that reads like self-protection and self-branding at once, suggesting dignity, spiritual composure, and a kind of narrative discipline. She’s not just saying she behaved well; she’s claiming the vantage point from which she gets to interpret what happened.
The subtext is defensive but savvy: if the public story is going to be told either way, she wants it told on her terms, with her as the adult in the room. In the context of 1990s celebrity culture and Trump-era media appetite for winners and losers, that’s also a refusal to be cast as either the scorned woman or the opportunist. “High ground” becomes both shield and stage, a way to exit without becoming the entertainment.
Quote Details
| Topic | Divorce |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Maples, Marla. (2026, January 16). When we separated, I did not want to get in a slugfest. I had to take the high ground. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-separated-i-did-not-want-to-get-in-a-95308/
Chicago Style
Maples, Marla. "When we separated, I did not want to get in a slugfest. I had to take the high ground." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-separated-i-did-not-want-to-get-in-a-95308/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When we separated, I did not want to get in a slugfest. I had to take the high ground." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-we-separated-i-did-not-want-to-get-in-a-95308/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



