"When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy. When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight"
About this Quote
The intent is spiritual and practical at once. In the spirit of The Prophet (1923), Gibran writes in the cadence of scripture - “look deep,” “you shall find” - borrowing prophetic certainty to make a psychological claim feel like moral truth. The subtext is an ethics of endurance: if joy is born from what has hurt you, then suffering isn’t merely endured, it’s mined. Likewise, grief becomes evidence of attachment, not a personal failure. He’s proposing a kind of emotional accounting where pain is the receipt for having loved, risked, and lived.
What makes it work is the symmetry. The sentences mirror each other like a call-and-response, nudging the reader into self-examination rather than argument. It’s less about explaining your feelings than re-framing them so they feel survivable - even meaningful. In an early 20th-century world marked by displacement, war, and diaspora, that alchemy wasn’t aesthetic; it was a survival language.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
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| Source | The Prophet, Kahlil Gibran (1923), chapter 'On Joy and Sorrow' — contains the passage commonly quoted. |
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Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Gibran, Kahlil. (2026, January 18). When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy. When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-are-joyous-look-deep-into-your-heart-and-17375/
Chicago Style
Gibran, Kahlil. "When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy. When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-are-joyous-look-deep-into-your-heart-and-17375/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy. When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-are-joyous-look-deep-into-your-heart-and-17375/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












