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Daily Inspiration Quote by Max Lerner

"When you are seventeen you aren't really serious"

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At seventeen, seriousness is mostly a costume: tried on, flaunted, discarded the moment it pinches. Max Lerner, the mid-century journalist who spent his career watching Americans manufacture identities out of politics, consumer culture, and aspiration, lands a compact provocation here. He is not just dunking on teenagers. He is puncturing the melodrama of youth, the way conviction can feel like character when it is really chemistry, peer pressure, and the intoxicating novelty of one’s own opinions.

The line works because it sounds like a shrug but carries an accusation. “Aren’t really serious” isn’t “don’t feel deeply.” Seventeen is all feeling. Lerner’s point is that the feelings haven’t been stress-tested. At that age you can afford moral absolutism because you’ve had little exposure to trade-offs that make adults cautious: rent, illness, consequences that don’t reset after summer break. Seriousness, in Lerner’s implied definition, is not intensity; it’s durability.

There’s also a sly adult self-portrait embedded in the claim. It comforts older readers by turning their compromises into wisdom, their diminished appetite for risk into maturity. Coming from a journalist, it doubles as a warning about rhetoric: the most passionate voices are not always the most responsible ones, and a society that mistakes youthful fervor for settled judgment is easy to whip into crusades.

The sting is that we recognize ourselves in it, even if we’d prefer not to.

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Lerner, Max. (n.d.). When you are seventeen you aren't really serious. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-are-seventeen-you-arent-really-serious-120196/

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Lerner, Max. "When you are seventeen you aren't really serious." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-are-seventeen-you-arent-really-serious-120196/.

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"When you are seventeen you aren't really serious." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-are-seventeen-you-arent-really-serious-120196/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Max Lerner (December 20, 1902 - 1992) was a Journalist from USA.

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