"When you are the lead in a romantic comedy, you have to worry about people really liking you"
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Chestnut's phrasing, "have to worry", is telling. It reframes likability as labor, not luck. The subtext is that the genre polices its leads more than most: you can't coast on intensity, mystery, or swagger. You have to project safety, humor, and emotional availability without looking needy; confidence without menace; self-awareness without smugness. It's a tightrope, especially for a Black actor whose screen image has historically been boxed into extremes - hypersexualized heartthrob, stoic side character, threatening stranger. The rom-com lead demands a different kind of cultural permission: to be desired and trusted at once.
Context matters, too: rom-coms are built on identification. They invite the audience to imagine themselves in the fantasy, which makes the lead's appeal feel personal. Chestnut isn't confessing vanity; he's naming the stakes. In romantic comedy, being liked isn't a bonus. It's the engine.
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