"When you are very little tennis should be fun, it should be a game"
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The subtext is about power. “When you are very little” draws a boundary that parents, coaches, and federations routinely ignore, turning kids into miniature projects with rankings, “college track” narratives, and adult-level emotional stakes. Forget implicitly argues that early pressure doesn’t just risk burnout; it reshapes a child’s relationship to effort. If every practice is an audition, curiosity dies. If every match is identity, losing becomes catastrophe. Fun isn’t a frivolous add-on here; it’s the psychological oxygen that lets a young player keep taking risks, keep playing, keep learning.
Context matters: tennis is uniquely susceptible to early specialization because it’s individualized, expensive, and measurable. You can quantify a child’s “promise” with scores and trophies long before they’re old enough to understand why they’re chasing them. Forget’s phrasing is deliberately plain, almost parental, because the message shouldn’t require translation. The sharp point is this: if you want resilient competitors later, you have to protect play now.
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Forget, Guy. (2026, January 16). When you are very little tennis should be fun, it should be a game. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-are-very-little-tennis-should-be-fun-it-111946/
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Forget, Guy. "When you are very little tennis should be fun, it should be a game." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-are-very-little-tennis-should-be-fun-it-111946/.
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"When you are very little tennis should be fun, it should be a game." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-are-very-little-tennis-should-be-fun-it-111946/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.




