"When you feel so strongly about something and other people feel equally strongly, you have to feel stronger about it in order to succeed"
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The subtext is quietly brutal: consensus doesn’t settle anything. When stakes are high, opposing certainty doesn’t soften into compromise; it hardens into competition. Chen isn’t celebrating intensity for its own sake so much as naming the social physics of crowded ambition. The world rewards not the best argument but the most relentlessly sustained one, especially when gatekeepers are tired, timelines are tight, and “no” is the default.
It also reads as a coded comment on being an actress - and, more pointedly, a woman and an immigrant in American and international cinema - where you’re often asked to be palatable, grateful, easy. “Feel stronger” pushes against that grooming. It’s permission to be difficult in the specific way ambition often requires: not louder, necessarily, but less persuadable by resistance. The line’s power is its honesty about what persistence costs, and its refusal to romanticize the cost away.
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"When you feel so strongly about something and other people feel equally strongly, you have to feel stronger about it in order to succeed." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-feel-so-strongly-about-something-and-151426/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.








