"When you find a worthy word, keep it; when you find a worthy person, learn from them"
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Then he pivots to the social version of the same discipline. “Worthy person” is a quiet rebuke to inherited authority. Don’t simply obey elders, officials, or the loudest voice in the room; evaluate worth, then learn. It’s meritocracy in the intimate key of self-cultivation. The subtext is anti-performative: keep the word (don’t spend it for status), learn from the person (don’t worship them). Both commands resist vanity. One targets the temptation to be clever; the other targets the temptation to belong.
The sentence works because it collapses culture into two portable practices: curating your speech and curating your influences. Abai isn’t romanticizing tradition; he’s giving instructions for surviving modernity without becoming its parody. If you can store what’s precise and study what’s exemplary, you build a mind that can’t be easily colonized.
Quote Details
| Topic | Learning |
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| Source | The Book of Words (Kara Sozder), on learning and example, 19th century. [translated] |
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"When you find a worthy word, keep it; when you find a worthy person, learn from them." FixQuotes, 14 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-find-a-worthy-word-keep-it-when-you-find-185317/. Accessed 15 Feb. 2026.








