"When you find the right people, you never let go. The people who count are the ones who are your friends in lean times. You have all the friends you want when things are going well"
About this Quote
Burke’s real target is the cheerful fraudulence of good times. Prosperity produces a crowd, and crowds are flattering; they also blur the difference between companionship and convenience. “You have all the friends you want when things are going well” lands with a grim little shrug: abundance manufactures belonging. The subtext is transactional, almost noir in its suspicion. People show up when there’s shine to share, not when there’s weight to carry.
“Lean times” does more than signal money problems. It’s a moral stress test: illness, grief, disgrace, addiction, the seasons when you’re not fun, not useful, not easily posted. Burke, a crime novelist steeped in the ethics of damaged men and compromised towns, understands how hardship strips away performative loyalty. In that world, friendship is measured in silent rides, unasked-for help, the phone that still rings after the scandal.
The quote works because it refuses the modern fantasy of infinite social abundance. It’s a critique of networking culture disguised as plainspoken wisdom: keep the small circle, honor the ones who stay, and don’t confuse attention with allegiance.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Burke, James Lee. (2026, January 17). When you find the right people, you never let go. The people who count are the ones who are your friends in lean times. You have all the friends you want when things are going well. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-find-the-right-people-you-never-let-go-46795/
Chicago Style
Burke, James Lee. "When you find the right people, you never let go. The people who count are the ones who are your friends in lean times. You have all the friends you want when things are going well." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-find-the-right-people-you-never-let-go-46795/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When you find the right people, you never let go. The people who count are the ones who are your friends in lean times. You have all the friends you want when things are going well." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-find-the-right-people-you-never-let-go-46795/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





