"When you find yourself on stage singing and you are embarrassed about what you are singing in front of your peers, then you have to think about your priorities"
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The line lands because it flips the usual story. We tend to treat embarrassment as evidence you’re being authentic (look how vulnerable) or evidence you’re being judged (haters). Moyet makes it evidence of misalignment. If your “peers” matter more than your audience, or more than your own standards, you’ve quietly switched jobs: from musician to approval-seeker. “Priorities” is the key word - practical, almost managerial - suggesting artistry is as much about choosing what you’ll risk looking foolish for as it is about taste.
There’s also a veteran’s subtext here. Moyet came up in an era when credibility and commercial success were often framed as enemies, especially for women navigating both industry expectations and peer policing. Her point isn’t that you should never feel self-conscious; it’s that self-consciousness is data. If the song feels beneath you, change the song. If you believe in it, sing it like you do. Either way, stop letting embarrassment write the setlist.
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Moyet, Alison. (2026, January 16). When you find yourself on stage singing and you are embarrassed about what you are singing in front of your peers, then you have to think about your priorities. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-find-yourself-on-stage-singing-and-you-124119/
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Moyet, Alison. "When you find yourself on stage singing and you are embarrassed about what you are singing in front of your peers, then you have to think about your priorities." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-find-yourself-on-stage-singing-and-you-124119/.
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"When you find yourself on stage singing and you are embarrassed about what you are singing in front of your peers, then you have to think about your priorities." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-find-yourself-on-stage-singing-and-you-124119/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.





