"When you get over the anxiety, you discover you should have been mad a long time ago"
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Clampitt's genius is the way she stages emotion as a sequence that doubles as a political diagnosis. Anxiety is the feeling that something is wrong and you might be the problem. Madness, here, is the correction: the recognition that something is wrong and it's been wrong for a while. The word "should" is doing quiet damage. It's accusatory, almost comic in its understatement, implying a backlog of justified outrage you've been talked out of feeling. The line smuggles in a critique of the cultures that reward composure and punish complaint: if you're anxious, you're fragile; if you're mad, you're difficult.
As a poet working through late-20th-century American life, Clampitt often maps outer landscapes onto inner weather. This sentence works the same way: it makes anxiety feel like fog and anger like an unignorable coastline. The subtext isn't "be angrier". It's sharper: your nervousness may be the product of misdirected responsibility. Get "over" it and you don't become less sensitive; you become more accurate.
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| Topic | Anxiety |
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Clampitt, Amy. (2026, January 16). When you get over the anxiety, you discover you should have been mad a long time ago. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-get-over-the-anxiety-you-discover-you-136822/
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Clampitt, Amy. "When you get over the anxiety, you discover you should have been mad a long time ago." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-get-over-the-anxiety-you-discover-you-136822/.
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"When you get over the anxiety, you discover you should have been mad a long time ago." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-get-over-the-anxiety-you-discover-you-136822/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.











