"When you get to your mid-20s, you start to feel responsibilities for the things that you do and the people around you. It's a cool age"
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Dushku's intent reads as reassurance to a generation raised on extended adolescence narratives - the idea that your 20s are for experimentation without stakes. She flips it: stakes are what make the decade interesting. Calling it "a cool age" is the key piece of performance here. It's casual, almost dismissive of the cultural script that your mid-20s should be panicky (career anxiety, relationship timelines, the first brush with mortality via hangovers). "Cool" suggests competence, a new kind of self-possession that isn't teen confidence but earned steadiness.
Context matters, too. As an actress who entered public life young, Dushku is implicitly talking about a delayed normalcy: when your identity isn't being auditioned, marketed, or reacted to in real time, you can finally start acting with intent. The subtext is a small rebellion against nostalgia: growing up isn't a betrayal of youth, it's the moment your life starts to belong to you.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Dushku, Eliza. (2026, January 15). When you get to your mid-20s, you start to feel responsibilities for the things that you do and the people around you. It's a cool age. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-get-to-your-mid-20s-you-start-to-feel-148886/
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Dushku, Eliza. "When you get to your mid-20s, you start to feel responsibilities for the things that you do and the people around you. It's a cool age." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-get-to-your-mid-20s-you-start-to-feel-148886/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When you get to your mid-20s, you start to feel responsibilities for the things that you do and the people around you. It's a cool age." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-get-to-your-mid-20s-you-start-to-feel-148886/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.






