"When you have to kill a man, it costs nothing to be polite"
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The sentence is engineered like a scalpel. “Have to” smuggles necessity into the room, stripping the killer of agency and laundering the act as obligation. Then comes the accountant’s phrase, “costs nothing,” which makes etiquette sound like a budget item. Churchill is the master of wartime moral arithmetic: you can’t make the choice harmless, but you can make it orderly. “Be polite” lands as the chilling punchline, because the reader expects remorse, or at least gravity, not a lesson in social grace.
Context matters. Churchill spoke from a world of total war and state decision-making, where life-and-death choices were routinely translated into memos, briefings, and commands. In that environment, politeness isn’t about kindness; it’s about control - of one’s own nerves, of the narrative, of the hierarchy between the person who acts and the person acted upon. The line carries the old British ethos of stiff upper lip into its darkest territory: even murder can be done “properly.”
It’s rhetorically powerful because it dares you to notice how civilization and cruelty often share the same uniform.
Quote Details
| Topic | Dark Humor |
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| Source | Evidence:
... Winston Churchill observed on one occasion , " after all when you have to kill a man it costs nothing to be polite . " 61 This , however , does not appear to be an application of any principle deemed binding . 57 Randle , How Do You Get ... |
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