"When you meet me, I can be charming and intelligent and reasonable"
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For a director, that subtext lands with particular bite. Film sets and development rooms are power ecosystems: you need to seduce financiers, calm anxious actors, and reassure studios that their money is safe. Charm is a negotiation tactic. Intelligence is credibility. Reasonableness is the mask that keeps everyone at the table. The line quietly acknowledges how much of directing is diplomacy before it’s artistry.
There’s also an edge of self-mythologizing that feels very industry-native. Kotcheff frames persona as a kind of blocking: first you enter as the agreeable protagonist, then you reveal the harder angles later, when stakes and schedules tighten. It’s an honest admission of professional code-switching, and maybe a sly defense against the caricature of the tyrant auteur. He’s not denying volatility; he’s locating it. Meet-and-greet Kotcheff is the pitch. Working Kotcheff is the production.
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