"When you see a woman who can go nowhere without a staff of admirers, it is not so much because they think she is beautiful, it is because she has told them they are handsome"
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The line works because it doesn’t attack beauty; it downgrades it. Physical attractiveness becomes almost incidental, while attention is revealed as a feedback loop. Admirers aren’t there because she’s exceptional; they’re there because she makes them feel exceptional. The subtext is unsentimental: admiration often has less to do with the admired than with the admirer’s hunger to be seen.
As a dramatist writing in early 20th-century France, Giraudoux is operating in a world of salons, stagecraft, and performance-as-social-life. His women (and men) understand that identity is partly something you negotiate in public. The “staff” image is telling: admirers aren’t romantic destiny, they’re personnel - a little entourage assembled by careful cues. It’s witty, a bit cynical, and quietly feminist in a sideways way: the woman isn’t merely evaluated; she’s strategically evaluating, too, using praise as leverage.
Underneath the elegance is a warning about how easily charm becomes governance, and how often we mistake our own reflected glow for genuine devotion.
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Giraudoux, Jean. (2026, January 16). When you see a woman who can go nowhere without a staff of admirers, it is not so much because they think she is beautiful, it is because she has told them they are handsome. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-see-a-woman-who-can-go-nowhere-without-a-96529/
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Giraudoux, Jean. "When you see a woman who can go nowhere without a staff of admirers, it is not so much because they think she is beautiful, it is because she has told them they are handsome." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-see-a-woman-who-can-go-nowhere-without-a-96529/.
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"When you see a woman who can go nowhere without a staff of admirers, it is not so much because they think she is beautiful, it is because she has told them they are handsome." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-see-a-woman-who-can-go-nowhere-without-a-96529/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











