"When you're a plebeian you want success, and when you're successful you want to be a plebeian again"
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The first clause captures ambition in its simplest, most culturally legible form: you’re outside the gates, so you chase entry. The second clause flips the fantasy. Once you’re “successful,” you inherit the surveillance, the performance of gratitude, the pressure to be a brand rather than a person. Cole’s subtext isn’t that success is bad; it’s that it’s sticky. It clings to you in expectations, in how people narrate your life back to you, in the way every choice becomes “a statement.”
Context matters: Cole emerged in the ’90s alt-pop ecosystem where authenticity was both a genuine value and a marketable aesthetic. This quote reads like an artist’s critique of that bargain. You want success to buy freedom, then you discover it can also buy a cage. The yearning to be “plebeian again” is really a yearning for agency: to be ordinary enough to belong to yourself.
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Cole, Paula. (2026, January 16). When you're a plebeian you want success, and when you're successful you want to be a plebeian again. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-a-plebeian-you-want-success-and-when-115685/
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Cole, Paula. "When you're a plebeian you want success, and when you're successful you want to be a plebeian again." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-a-plebeian-you-want-success-and-when-115685/.
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"When you're a plebeian you want success, and when you're successful you want to be a plebeian again." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-a-plebeian-you-want-success-and-when-115685/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









