"When you're drowning, you don't say 'I would be incredibly pleased if someone would have the foresight to notice me drowning and come and help me,' you just scream"
About this Quote
The intent is less poetry than permission. Lennon is arguing that pain doesn’t arrive in well-edited paragraphs; it comes out messy, loud, repetitive, even annoying. The subtext is a rebuke to listeners, friends, institutions - anyone who dismisses desperation because it isn’t delivered in the “right” tone. If someone’s screaming, the point isn’t to critique their communication skills. The point is that the emergency is already here.
Context matters: Lennon spent his post-Beatles years publicly unpacking trauma, therapy, and the costs of celebrity, and he lived in an era that romanticized the tortured artist while offering few everyday vocabularies for mental distress. This line cuts through that romantic haze. It insists on urgency, not aura - and it quietly suggests that if you’re waiting for a perfectly worded request, you’re choosing not to hear the scream.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Lennon, John. (2026, January 18). When you're drowning, you don't say 'I would be incredibly pleased if someone would have the foresight to notice me drowning and come and help me,' you just scream. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-drowning-you-dont-say-i-would-be-22175/
Chicago Style
Lennon, John. "When you're drowning, you don't say 'I would be incredibly pleased if someone would have the foresight to notice me drowning and come and help me,' you just scream." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-drowning-you-dont-say-i-would-be-22175/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When you're drowning, you don't say 'I would be incredibly pleased if someone would have the foresight to notice me drowning and come and help me,' you just scream." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-drowning-you-dont-say-i-would-be-22175/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.







