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Creativity Quote by John Lennon

"When you're drowning, you don't say 'I would be incredibly pleased if someone would have the foresight to notice me drowning and come and help me,' you just scream"

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Drowning is Lennon’s blunt metaphor for emotional crisis, and the genius of the line is how it mocks the “polite” language people are expected to use when they’re falling apart. He sets up a ridiculous, over-mannered sentence - “I would be incredibly pleased...” - to expose a cultural reflex: we treat suffering like an etiquette problem, as if the right phrasing will make it palatable, as if asking for help must be calm, coherent, and socially convenient. Then he snaps it shut with “you just scream,” a one-word reality check that refuses decorum.

The intent is less poetry than permission. Lennon is arguing that pain doesn’t arrive in well-edited paragraphs; it comes out messy, loud, repetitive, even annoying. The subtext is a rebuke to listeners, friends, institutions - anyone who dismisses desperation because it isn’t delivered in the “right” tone. If someone’s screaming, the point isn’t to critique their communication skills. The point is that the emergency is already here.

Context matters: Lennon spent his post-Beatles years publicly unpacking trauma, therapy, and the costs of celebrity, and he lived in an era that romanticized the tortured artist while offering few everyday vocabularies for mental distress. This line cuts through that romantic haze. It insists on urgency, not aura - and it quietly suggests that if you’re waiting for a perfectly worded request, you’re choosing not to hear the scream.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lennon, John. (2026, January 18). When you're drowning, you don't say 'I would be incredibly pleased if someone would have the foresight to notice me drowning and come and help me,' you just scream. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-drowning-you-dont-say-i-would-be-22175/

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Lennon, John. "When you're drowning, you don't say 'I would be incredibly pleased if someone would have the foresight to notice me drowning and come and help me,' you just scream." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-drowning-you-dont-say-i-would-be-22175/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When you're drowning, you don't say 'I would be incredibly pleased if someone would have the foresight to notice me drowning and come and help me,' you just scream." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-drowning-you-dont-say-i-would-be-22175/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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John Lennon (October 9, 1940 - December 8, 1980) was a Musician from United Kingdom.

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