"When you're surrounded by all these people, it can be even lonelier than when you're by yourself. You can be in a huge crowd, but if you don't feel like you can trust anybody or talk to anybody, you feel like you're really alone"
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Apple's intent feels less like offering a poetic aphorism and more like documenting a social physics she knows too well: visibility without intimacy is exhausting. In a crowd, you're performing a version of yourself, scanning for threats, making micro-decisions about what can be said and to whom. When every interaction feels risky, the crowd becomes a room full of locked doors. That "really alone" at the end lands like a diagnosis, not a metaphor.
As a musician who came up under intense attention, Apple also smuggles in a critique of fame and social scenes: being watched is not the same as being known. The quote resonates now because it names a contemporary condition - constant proximity, constant connection, and a shrinking sense that anyone is trustworthy enough for an honest sentence.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Apple, Fiona. (2026, January 16). When you're surrounded by all these people, it can be even lonelier than when you're by yourself. You can be in a huge crowd, but if you don't feel like you can trust anybody or talk to anybody, you feel like you're really alone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-surrounded-by-all-these-people-it-can-95352/
Chicago Style
Apple, Fiona. "When you're surrounded by all these people, it can be even lonelier than when you're by yourself. You can be in a huge crowd, but if you don't feel like you can trust anybody or talk to anybody, you feel like you're really alone." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-surrounded-by-all-these-people-it-can-95352/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When you're surrounded by all these people, it can be even lonelier than when you're by yourself. You can be in a huge crowd, but if you don't feel like you can trust anybody or talk to anybody, you feel like you're really alone." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-surrounded-by-all-these-people-it-can-95352/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.






