"When you're surrounded by all these people, it can be even lonelier than when you're by yourself. You can be in a huge crowd, but if you don't feel like you can trust anybody or talk to anybody, you feel like you're really alone"
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Crowds are supposed to be a cure. Fiona Apple flips that social promise into a threat: the more people around you, the more your isolation can echo. The line is built like a trapdoor. It starts with the familiar image of being "surrounded", a word that can read as comfort or siege, then drops into the quiet verdict that loneliness can intensify under witness. What makes it sting is the specificity of the mechanism: not shyness, not introversion, but the absence of trust and the absence of a safe channel to speak. Loneliness here isn't a headcount problem; it's a relational failure.
Apple's intent feels less like offering a poetic aphorism and more like documenting a social physics she knows too well: visibility without intimacy is exhausting. In a crowd, you're performing a version of yourself, scanning for threats, making micro-decisions about what can be said and to whom. When every interaction feels risky, the crowd becomes a room full of locked doors. That "really alone" at the end lands like a diagnosis, not a metaphor.
As a musician who came up under intense attention, Apple also smuggles in a critique of fame and social scenes: being watched is not the same as being known. The quote resonates now because it names a contemporary condition - constant proximity, constant connection, and a shrinking sense that anyone is trustworthy enough for an honest sentence.
Apple's intent feels less like offering a poetic aphorism and more like documenting a social physics she knows too well: visibility without intimacy is exhausting. In a crowd, you're performing a version of yourself, scanning for threats, making micro-decisions about what can be said and to whom. When every interaction feels risky, the crowd becomes a room full of locked doors. That "really alone" at the end lands like a diagnosis, not a metaphor.
As a musician who came up under intense attention, Apple also smuggles in a critique of fame and social scenes: being watched is not the same as being known. The quote resonates now because it names a contemporary condition - constant proximity, constant connection, and a shrinking sense that anyone is trustworthy enough for an honest sentence.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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