"When you're thirteen and listening to punk, the aggressive nature of music can sway you to the dark side"
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"The aggressive nature of music" isn’t a moral judgment so much as a description of a chemical reaction. Aggression here is a delivery system: it gives shape to feelings a kid can’t yet name, then hands them a script for acting those feelings out. Grohl’s choice of "sway" matters, too. He’s not describing a conscious decision to be "bad"; he’s describing drift, the way a soundtrack can tilt a person toward risk, nihilism, or a posture of contempt before they’ve developed the defenses to see it as posture.
Then he spikes it with "the dark side", a pop-culture shorthand that’s half warning, half wink. Coming from Grohl - a musician who grew up on hardcore but became the affable face of mainstream rock - the line reads as a self-aware confession: punk can romanticize self-destruction, but it can also be the first place a young person feels understood. The subtext is parental and autobiographical at once: this music can save you by giving you an outlet, and it can endanger you by making the abyss look like a community.
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Grohl, Dave. (2026, January 15). When you're thirteen and listening to punk, the aggressive nature of music can sway you to the dark side. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-thirteen-and-listening-to-punk-the-150399/
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"When you're thirteen and listening to punk, the aggressive nature of music can sway you to the dark side." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-thirteen-and-listening-to-punk-the-150399/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.





