"When you're with your wife, you don't say I love you to your wife every day but the ways you look at her and your actions are another way to communicate. Don't focus on dialogue, only focus on what you're expressing"
About this Quote
The quote’s intent is practical, almost corrective. It pushes back against the default modern belief that sincerity equals verbal declaration. In a relationship, “I love you” can become wallpaper; in a film, exposition becomes noise. Hazanavicius is pointing to the medium’s native language: the glance that arrives a beat too late, the hand that doesn’t reach, the way someone stays in a room after the conversation is “over.” Those are not decorative details; they’re the story’s real grammar.
There’s subtext here about trust. Trust the audience to read what’s on screen, trust actors to carry interiority without announcing it, trust yourself not to over-clarify. Coming from a director associated with playful pastiche and largely wordless storytelling (The Artist especially), it reads like a credo: the camera is an empathy machine, but only if you let it observe rather than translate.
In an era of hyper-articulated feelings and therapy-speak in scripts, this is a quiet rebuke: expression isn’t what you say you’re doing, it’s what you keep doing when nobody’s prompting you.
Quote Details
| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hazanavicius, Michel. (2026, January 15). When you're with your wife, you don't say I love you to your wife every day but the ways you look at her and your actions are another way to communicate. Don't focus on dialogue, only focus on what you're expressing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-with-your-wife-you-dont-say-i-love-you-155811/
Chicago Style
Hazanavicius, Michel. "When you're with your wife, you don't say I love you to your wife every day but the ways you look at her and your actions are another way to communicate. Don't focus on dialogue, only focus on what you're expressing." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-with-your-wife-you-dont-say-i-love-you-155811/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When you're with your wife, you don't say I love you to your wife every day but the ways you look at her and your actions are another way to communicate. Don't focus on dialogue, only focus on what you're expressing." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-with-your-wife-you-dont-say-i-love-you-155811/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






