"When you're young, you don't really know quite what you're aiming at. You're very impulsive and acting on impulse, which is very important and valuable. But you're kind of swimming in a blind sea. When you get older, you have more of a sense of direction"
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The subtext reads like an argument with the adult tendency to sneer at youth. O'Connor refuses that easy superiority. Impulsiveness, in her telling, isn’t a childish flaw to outgrow; it’s the engine of risk, invention, and refusal. That stance tracks with a career built on instinctive moral clarity, where the point was often the leap itself. Yet she also refuses the romantic myth that instinct alone is enough. "Blind sea" suggests not just freedom, but danger: currents, undertows, the possibility of never arriving.
Context matters. O'Connor lived in public as someone who acted before consensus formed, and paid for it. So "direction" in age isn’t presented as comfort; it’s hard-won orientation, the kind you get after consequences, backlash, and self-interrogation. The line carries a bruised optimism: you don’t stop being impulsive because you become polite; you become impulsive with purpose. The quote works because it honors both seasons without pretending they’re equally safe.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
O'Connor, Sinead. (2026, January 15). When you're young, you don't really know quite what you're aiming at. You're very impulsive and acting on impulse, which is very important and valuable. But you're kind of swimming in a blind sea. When you get older, you have more of a sense of direction. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-young-you-dont-really-know-quite-what-156016/
Chicago Style
O'Connor, Sinead. "When you're young, you don't really know quite what you're aiming at. You're very impulsive and acting on impulse, which is very important and valuable. But you're kind of swimming in a blind sea. When you get older, you have more of a sense of direction." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-young-you-dont-really-know-quite-what-156016/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When you're young, you don't really know quite what you're aiming at. You're very impulsive and acting on impulse, which is very important and valuable. But you're kind of swimming in a blind sea. When you get older, you have more of a sense of direction." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youre-young-you-dont-really-know-quite-what-156016/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.






