"When you've played Buffy - who's such a strong female role model - it's really hard for another female character to compare to her"
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Buffy wasn’t strong because she threw punches; she was strong because the show let her be contradictory. She was heroic and petty, tender and ruthless, burdened by destiny and irritated by homework. That range is what makes Gellar’s line land: it hints that many female roles offered after Buffy are strong in the brochure sense, not in the lived-in, messy-human sense. If the only alternative is a manicured archetype - “tough,” “sexy,” “sassy,” “damaged” - then yes, it’s hard to compete with a character who got to be a whole person across seasons.
The quote also carries the quiet cost of iconic casting. Gellar is describing a creative hangover: once you’ve inhabited a role model with cultural gravity, other parts can feel like downgrades or compromises. It’s not just nostalgia; it’s a benchmark. Buffy set expectations for what audiences would accept as female-centered genre storytelling, and Gellar’s comment suggests Hollywood has been trying to cash that check with insufficient funds ever since.
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Gellar, Sarah Michelle. (2026, January 16). When you've played Buffy - who's such a strong female role model - it's really hard for another female character to compare to her. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youve-played-buffy-whos-such-a-strong-102778/
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Gellar, Sarah Michelle. "When you've played Buffy - who's such a strong female role model - it's really hard for another female character to compare to her." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youve-played-buffy-whos-such-a-strong-102778/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When you've played Buffy - who's such a strong female role model - it's really hard for another female character to compare to her." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-youve-played-buffy-whos-such-a-strong-102778/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.





