"Whenever I was upset by something in the papers, Jack always told me to be more tolerant, like a horse flicking away flies in the summer"
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Jack’s advice - “be more tolerant” - lands with the cool pragmatism of a politician who understood that outrage is a resource other people harvest from you. The simile does the real work: “like a horse flicking away flies in the summer.” Not noble endurance, not saintly forgiveness. Animal competence. Reflex. The horse doesn’t negotiate with flies or internalize their opinions; it keeps moving, conserving energy for what matters. That’s the subtext: the press is irritating, persistent, and mostly beneath the dignity of a response.
It also quietly rewrites “tolerance” as strategy, not morality. In a White House where every reaction could become a new headline, restraint isn’t passive; it’s a form of power. Coming from Jackie, the image carries an extra edge: she was expected to be graceful, ornamental, unbothered. This metaphor admits she was bothered - then shows how she learned to perform unbotheredness as survival.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kennedy, Jackie. (2026, January 18). Whenever I was upset by something in the papers, Jack always told me to be more tolerant, like a horse flicking away flies in the summer. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whenever-i-was-upset-by-something-in-the-papers-23741/
Chicago Style
Kennedy, Jackie. "Whenever I was upset by something in the papers, Jack always told me to be more tolerant, like a horse flicking away flies in the summer." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whenever-i-was-upset-by-something-in-the-papers-23741/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Whenever I was upset by something in the papers, Jack always told me to be more tolerant, like a horse flicking away flies in the summer." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whenever-i-was-upset-by-something-in-the-papers-23741/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








