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"Whenever I was upset by something in the papers, Jack always told me to be more tolerant, like a horse flicking away flies in the summer"

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The glamour version of Jackie Kennedy often edits out the fact that she lived inside a pressure cooker of headlines, betrayal, and national projection. This line lets the steam show, but in a controlled way. She frames her distress as something triggered by “the papers,” that blunt plural capturing a whole ecosystem of gossip and agenda-setting. The problem isn’t one bad story; it’s the daily churn of narrative as weather.

Jack’s advice - “be more tolerant” - lands with the cool pragmatism of a politician who understood that outrage is a resource other people harvest from you. The simile does the real work: “like a horse flicking away flies in the summer.” Not noble endurance, not saintly forgiveness. Animal competence. Reflex. The horse doesn’t negotiate with flies or internalize their opinions; it keeps moving, conserving energy for what matters. That’s the subtext: the press is irritating, persistent, and mostly beneath the dignity of a response.

It also quietly rewrites “tolerance” as strategy, not morality. In a White House where every reaction could become a new headline, restraint isn’t passive; it’s a form of power. Coming from Jackie, the image carries an extra edge: she was expected to be graceful, ornamental, unbothered. This metaphor admits she was bothered - then shows how she learned to perform unbotheredness as survival.

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Kennedy, Jackie. (2026, January 18). Whenever I was upset by something in the papers, Jack always told me to be more tolerant, like a horse flicking away flies in the summer. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whenever-i-was-upset-by-something-in-the-papers-23741/

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Kennedy, Jackie. "Whenever I was upset by something in the papers, Jack always told me to be more tolerant, like a horse flicking away flies in the summer." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whenever-i-was-upset-by-something-in-the-papers-23741/.

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"Whenever I was upset by something in the papers, Jack always told me to be more tolerant, like a horse flicking away flies in the summer." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whenever-i-was-upset-by-something-in-the-papers-23741/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Jackie Kennedy (July 28, 1929 - May 19, 1994) was a First Lady from USA.

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