"Whenever we have thanked these men and women for what they have done for us, without exception they have expressed gratitude for having the chance to help - because they grew as they served"
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The subtext is a quiet rebuke to the transactional way institutions talk about volunteering, philanthropy, even corporate "purpose". Gratitude typically flows one way: we thank helpers for their sacrifice. Christensen flips that script. The helpers, he claims, are the ones who feel lucky. That inversion does two things. It lowers the moral temperature (service isn't sainthood; it's self-development) and makes service easier to sell to people who fear altruism will drain them. You don't just give; you "grow."
Context matters here: Christensen built a career translating human behavior into frameworks leaders could apply. In that world, "serve to grow" is a leadership strategy as much as an ethical claim. It flatters high achievers by suggesting that meaning isn't found in conquest but in contribution, while also giving executives a palatable vocabulary for character: development, opportunity, growth.
Still, the absolutism is the tell. Not everyone experiences service as uplifting; it can be exhausting, coerced, or unequal. Christensen's neat certainty is less sociology than aspiration - a story leaders want to be true because it offers a way out of cynicism without abandoning ambition.
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| Topic | Servant Leadership |
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Christensen, Clayton. (2026, January 15). Whenever we have thanked these men and women for what they have done for us, without exception they have expressed gratitude for having the chance to help - because they grew as they served. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whenever-we-have-thanked-these-men-and-women-for-150346/
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Christensen, Clayton. "Whenever we have thanked these men and women for what they have done for us, without exception they have expressed gratitude for having the chance to help - because they grew as they served." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whenever-we-have-thanked-these-men-and-women-for-150346/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Whenever we have thanked these men and women for what they have done for us, without exception they have expressed gratitude for having the chance to help - because they grew as they served." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whenever-we-have-thanked-these-men-and-women-for-150346/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.




