"Where there is a mother in the home, matters go well"
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The line’s craft is its apparent neutrality. "Matters go well" sounds observational, almost statistical, as if domestic harmony were a predictable outcome like good weather. That vagueness is the point. It allows a normative claim to masquerade as common sense. By making maternal presence the condition for "well", Alcott quietly turns absence or deviation into failure: households without mothers, women who work outside the home, fathers as primary nurturers, extended kin networks, and the poor who cannot afford the ideal all become implicit counterexamples.
Alcott’s profession matters here. As an educator and reformer (with utopian impulses and a taste for moral instruction), he’s invested in shaping citizens early, inside the home. The mother becomes the first teacher, the unseen curriculum behind public schooling. There’s tenderness in that elevation, but also surveillance: a demand that women perform goodness so the culture can outsource its anxieties about disorder, vice, and modernity.
Read today, the quote lands less like comfort and more like a blueprint for blaming women when society’s "matters" don’t go well.
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| Topic | Mother |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Alcott, Amos Bronson. (n.d.). Where there is a mother in the home, matters go well. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/where-there-is-a-mother-in-the-home-matters-go-135457/
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Alcott, Amos Bronson. "Where there is a mother in the home, matters go well." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/where-there-is-a-mother-in-the-home-matters-go-135457/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Where there is a mother in the home, matters go well." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/where-there-is-a-mother-in-the-home-matters-go-135457/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.









