"While seeking revenge, dig two graves - one for yourself"
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As a clergyman writing in a century shaped by two world wars, economic collapse, and the long hangover of public violence, Horton isn’t offering a cute moral maxim. He’s warning about the spiritual physics of retaliation: the act deforms the person who performs it. The subtext is theological without being doctrinal. Revenge isn’t merely “wrong”; it is corrosive, a choice that converts injury into identity. You don’t just punish someone; you build a life around punishment, and that life is a kind of burial.
The line’s precision is also its strategy. It refuses the comforting idea that revenge is a private indulgence. It’s consequential, and the consequence is you. Horton doesn’t promise that forgiveness fixes the world or that enemies deserve mercy. He argues something more psychologically credible: vengeance recruits you into the same darkness you’re trying to expel. The grave for the other person may be metaphorical or literal; the grave for yourself is guaranteed.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Horton, Douglas. (2026, January 15). While seeking revenge, dig two graves - one for yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/while-seeking-revenge-dig-two-graves-one-for-67816/
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Horton, Douglas. "While seeking revenge, dig two graves - one for yourself." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/while-seeking-revenge-dig-two-graves-one-for-67816/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"While seeking revenge, dig two graves - one for yourself." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/while-seeking-revenge-dig-two-graves-one-for-67816/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











