"While we have the gift of life, it seems to me the only tragedy is to allow part of us to die - whether it is our spirit, our creativity or our glorious uniqueness"
About this Quote
The craft of the quote is in its pivot: life is framed as a “gift,” then tragedy is reframed as “allowing” something internal to die. That verb matters. “Allow” implies consent, drift, a slow surrender to the pressures that sand people down: exhaustion, shame, conformity, the adult bargain of being palatable. Radner doesn’t blame a villain; she indicts inertia. The list - “spirit, creativity, glorious uniqueness” - moves from the emotional to the productive to the identity-level, tracing how people first lose spark, then stop making, then forget what made them singular.
There’s also a performer’s subtext here: for comedians and actors, the self is both instrument and offering. To protect yourself by shrinking is to sabotage the very thing you have to give. “Glorious” is a tell - it’s not just permission to be different, it’s a demand to treat difference as spectacle worth keeping.
In the cultural moment Radner helped define - post-’70s liberation, pre-irony overdose - the quote reads as an argument for staying porous. Not fearless. Alive all the way through.
Quote Details
| Topic | Meaning of Life |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Radner, Gilda. (2026, January 17). While we have the gift of life, it seems to me the only tragedy is to allow part of us to die - whether it is our spirit, our creativity or our glorious uniqueness. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/while-we-have-the-gift-of-life-it-seems-to-me-the-67911/
Chicago Style
Radner, Gilda. "While we have the gift of life, it seems to me the only tragedy is to allow part of us to die - whether it is our spirit, our creativity or our glorious uniqueness." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/while-we-have-the-gift-of-life-it-seems-to-me-the-67911/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"While we have the gift of life, it seems to me the only tragedy is to allow part of us to die - whether it is our spirit, our creativity or our glorious uniqueness." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/while-we-have-the-gift-of-life-it-seems-to-me-the-67911/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.








