"Who can I trust? You have to invest in somebody and chances are you're probably going to invest in somebody who's going to deceive you. I've been conned a couple of times, but now I'm a little more savvy"
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The subtext is a quiet indictment of the systems that demand access to people who hold power over you. In entertainment especially, trust is often brokered through managers, producers, publicity machines, and the soft coercion of being "easy to work with". "Chances are you're probably going to invest in somebody who's going to deceive you" isn’t paranoia; it’s a statistical worldview shaped by experience. She doesn’t posture as above it. She admits she’s been "conned", a blunt, almost old-fashioned word that suggests not just betrayal but a practiced con - the professionalization of charm.
Then comes the pivot: "now I'm a little more savvy". Not healed, not closed off, just better calibrated. It’s survival advice disguised as autobiography: stay open enough to keep moving, stay sharp enough to notice the pitch. The intent isn’t to scold naivete; it’s to normalize learning trust the hard way, without romanticizing the bruises.
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| Topic | Betrayal |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gyllenhaal, Maggie. (2026, January 16). Who can I trust? You have to invest in somebody and chances are you're probably going to invest in somebody who's going to deceive you. I've been conned a couple of times, but now I'm a little more savvy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/who-can-i-trust-you-have-to-invest-in-somebody-95269/
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Gyllenhaal, Maggie. "Who can I trust? You have to invest in somebody and chances are you're probably going to invest in somebody who's going to deceive you. I've been conned a couple of times, but now I'm a little more savvy." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/who-can-i-trust-you-have-to-invest-in-somebody-95269/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Who can I trust? You have to invest in somebody and chances are you're probably going to invest in somebody who's going to deceive you. I've been conned a couple of times, but now I'm a little more savvy." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/who-can-i-trust-you-have-to-invest-in-somebody-95269/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.








