"Who is the happiest of men? He who values the merits of others, and in their pleasure takes joy, even as though 'twere his own"
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The phrasing matters. “Values the merits” is evaluative, almost civic; it suggests trained judgment rather than gushy admiration. Goethe isn’t praising naïveté or indiscriminate positivity. He’s describing a person secure enough to recognize quality wherever it appears, even when it appears in a rival. That’s the subtext: envy is not just an ugly feeling, it’s a failure of perception, a misreading of the world where someone else’s gain is automatically your loss.
Then comes the real trick: “in their pleasure takes joy.” He isn’t talking about abstract “success,” but about pleasure - lived, embodied happiness. The happiest person is the one who can emotionally affiliate, who can cross the border of the self without collapsing it. The archaic “’twere” gives the sentiment a formal, almost contractual tone, as if Goethe is drafting a code of conduct for the inner life.
Contextually, this fits a writer shaped by Weimar classicism: self-cultivation (Bildung) not as self-obsession, but as a widening of sympathy and taste. It’s also a pragmatic ethic for a salon culture of artists, patrons, and competitors, where bitterness is easy and generosity is strategic. Goethe’s happiest man wins by refusing the zero-sum story.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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| Source | Wilhelm Meister's Apprenticeship (Wilhelm Meisters Lehrjahre), Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, 1795–96 , commonly translated as: "Who is the happiest of men? He who values the merits of others, and in their pleasure takes joy, even as though 'twere his own." |
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Goethe, Johann Wolfgang Von. (n.d.). Who is the happiest of men? He who values the merits of others, and in their pleasure takes joy, even as though 'twere his own. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/who-is-the-happiest-of-men-he-who-values-the-171401/
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Goethe, Johann Wolfgang Von. "Who is the happiest of men? He who values the merits of others, and in their pleasure takes joy, even as though 'twere his own." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/who-is-the-happiest-of-men-he-who-values-the-171401/.
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"Who is the happiest of men? He who values the merits of others, and in their pleasure takes joy, even as though 'twere his own." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/who-is-the-happiest-of-men-he-who-values-the-171401/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.











