"Who is there that ever receives a gift and tries to make bargains about it? Let us, then, return thanks for what He has bestowed on us. Who can tell whether, if we had had a larger share of ability or stronger health, we should not have possessed them to our destruction"
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The subtext is distinctly Catholic and distinctly 18th-century: life is not a marketplace where virtue earns upgrades. Liguori, a moral theologian steeped in confession culture and scrupulous consciences, targets a familiar trap - obsessive self-auditing. Am I getting my fair share of talent, health, ease? His answer is to rewire the question from entitlement to stewardship. What you have is “bestowed,” not owed, and the proper posture is reception, not negotiation.
His most pointed move is the twist on envy. He doesn’t argue that greater ability or stronger health would make you happier; he suggests it might ruin you. That’s pastoral realism dressed as humility: gifts enlarge your risk profile. More power means more temptation, more vanity, more occasions to fail. In a world where illness was common and social mobility uneven, this is consolation without sentimentality - a way to make limits feel like protection rather than punishment.
The intent is clear: replace resentment with trust, and replace anxiety about “more” with suspicion that “more” might be the very thing that breaks you.
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Liguori, Alphonsus. (2026, January 17). Who is there that ever receives a gift and tries to make bargains about it? Let us, then, return thanks for what He has bestowed on us. Who can tell whether, if we had had a larger share of ability or stronger health, we should not have possessed them to our destruction. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/who-is-there-that-ever-receives-a-gift-and-tries-45654/
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Liguori, Alphonsus. "Who is there that ever receives a gift and tries to make bargains about it? Let us, then, return thanks for what He has bestowed on us. Who can tell whether, if we had had a larger share of ability or stronger health, we should not have possessed them to our destruction." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/who-is-there-that-ever-receives-a-gift-and-tries-45654/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Who is there that ever receives a gift and tries to make bargains about it? Let us, then, return thanks for what He has bestowed on us. Who can tell whether, if we had had a larger share of ability or stronger health, we should not have possessed them to our destruction." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/who-is-there-that-ever-receives-a-gift-and-tries-45654/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.











