"Whoever despises himself nonetheless respects himself as one who despises"
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The line works because it exposes a psychological sleight of hand. “Despising myself” is not the same as losing the self; it’s doubling it. One part plays defendant, the other plays prosecutor, and the prosecutor gets the better costume. You can hear Nietzsche’s broader suspicion of moral emotions humming underneath: guilt, ascetic self-denial, performative repentance. They don’t just restrain desire; they manufacture a new kind of superiority for the person who can suffer “correctly.” Even misery can be recruited as a status symbol.
Contextually, this sits comfortably inside Nietzsche’s critique of ressentiment and the ascetic ideal: the way people transmute weakness into virtue and cruelty into “conscience.” The self-hater is still clinging to agency, still narrating themselves as a meaningful character. Nietzsche isn’t offering comfort; he’s stripping away a comforting lie: that self-contempt is pure humility. Often it’s the ego’s last refuge, surviving as a refined, moralized form of self-importance.
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| Topic | Wisdom |
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| Source | Unverified source: Jenseits von Gut und Böse (Friedrich Nietzsche, 1886)
Evidence: Part IV ("Sprüche und Zwischenspiele" / "Apophthegms and Interludes"), aphorism 78. The German original appears as: "Wer sich selbst verachtet, achtet sich doch immer noch dabei als Verächter." in Part IV, aphorism 78 of Nietzsche’s 1886 book "Jenseits von Gut und Böse. Vorspiel einer Philosophie... Other candidates (2) The Very Best of Friedrich Nietzsche (David Graham, 2014) compilation95.0% ... of gratitude . " " Whoever despises himself nonetheless respects himself as one who despises . " * " Our treasure... Friedrich Nietzsche (Friedrich Nietzsche) compilation41.8% h reverence is a bridge to lovefor he desires his enemy for himself as his mark of distinct |
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