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Motherhood Quote by Claudette Colbert

"Why do grandparents and grandchildren get along so well? The mother"

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A neat little boomerang of a joke: it leaves the room sounding like a cozy family observation and comes back as a pointed comment about domestic power. Claudette Colbert’s line works because it weaponizes the simplest explanation - “The mother” - as both punchline and diagnosis. Grandparents and grandchildren aren’t magically aligned by genetics or sentiment; they’re allied by a shared distance from the day-to-day grind. The mother is the traffic cop, the rule-setter, the scheduler, the one who says no when everyone else gets to say yes.

As an actress who thrived on razor timing and social comedy, Colbert understands how a single, clipped answer can land harder than a paragraph. The setup invites sweetness; the payoff exposes the family as a small political system. Grandparents can indulge because they’re no longer responsible for consequences. Grandchildren can adore them because they’re not the ones enforcing bedtime, vegetables, or manners. The mother becomes the “bad cop” not out of temperament but function.

The subtext is quietly feminist before the word was mainstream: it names the invisible labor of motherhood and the way it’s resented precisely because it’s necessary. Colbert’s era sold motherhood as instinctive bliss while expecting women to carry the burden of discipline and social performance. Her joke punctures that packaging. It also hints at triangulation: affection often travels along the path of least resistance, and families frequently bond over a common obstacle. Here, the obstacle isn’t a villain; it’s the person holding the whole thing together.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Colbert, Claudette. (2026, January 16). Why do grandparents and grandchildren get along so well? The mother. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/why-do-grandparents-and-grandchildren-get-along-132148/

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Colbert, Claudette. "Why do grandparents and grandchildren get along so well? The mother." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/why-do-grandparents-and-grandchildren-get-along-132148/.

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"Why do grandparents and grandchildren get along so well? The mother." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/why-do-grandparents-and-grandchildren-get-along-132148/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Claudette Colbert (September 13, 1903 - June 30, 1996) was a Actress from France.

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