"Why do grandparents and grandchildren get along so well? The mother"
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As an actress who thrived on razor timing and social comedy, Colbert understands how a single, clipped answer can land harder than a paragraph. The setup invites sweetness; the payoff exposes the family as a small political system. Grandparents can indulge because they’re no longer responsible for consequences. Grandchildren can adore them because they’re not the ones enforcing bedtime, vegetables, or manners. The mother becomes the “bad cop” not out of temperament but function.
The subtext is quietly feminist before the word was mainstream: it names the invisible labor of motherhood and the way it’s resented precisely because it’s necessary. Colbert’s era sold motherhood as instinctive bliss while expecting women to carry the burden of discipline and social performance. Her joke punctures that packaging. It also hints at triangulation: affection often travels along the path of least resistance, and families frequently bond over a common obstacle. Here, the obstacle isn’t a villain; it’s the person holding the whole thing together.
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| Topic | Grandparents |
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Colbert, Claudette. (2026, January 16). Why do grandparents and grandchildren get along so well? The mother. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/why-do-grandparents-and-grandchildren-get-along-132148/
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Colbert, Claudette. "Why do grandparents and grandchildren get along so well? The mother." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/why-do-grandparents-and-grandchildren-get-along-132148/.
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"Why do grandparents and grandchildren get along so well? The mother." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/why-do-grandparents-and-grandchildren-get-along-132148/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.





