"Why not hold on to whatever I've got because it's as good as it's ever going to get. How can I believe that love is coming, how can I even believe that love exists; if I don't believe it's spiritually based?"
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Then the quote swivels from pragmatism to metaphysics, and that turn is the tell. “How can I believe that love is coming” frames love as an arrival, something external that either shows up or doesn’t, which quietly absolves the speaker from risk. But he doesn’t stop at doubting his own prospects; he doubts the category itself: “how can I even believe that love exists.” That escalation exposes the deeper wound: when love has felt transactional, inconsistent, or conditional, it’s tempting to declare the whole thing a myth.
The final clause supplies the coping mechanism and the plea. By insisting love must be “spiritually based,” Loggins isn’t preaching; he’s trying to build a foundation strong enough to stand on when desire, timing, and chemistry fail. In a late-20th-century culture that often treated romance like a lifestyle upgrade, this is a musician’s insistence that love can’t just be taste or luck. It has to mean something beyond the marketplace, or it’s not worth believing in at all.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Loggins, Kenny. (n.d.). Why not hold on to whatever I've got because it's as good as it's ever going to get. How can I believe that love is coming, how can I even believe that love exists; if I don't believe it's spiritually based? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/why-not-hold-on-to-whatever-ive-got-because-its-96612/
Chicago Style
Loggins, Kenny. "Why not hold on to whatever I've got because it's as good as it's ever going to get. How can I believe that love is coming, how can I even believe that love exists; if I don't believe it's spiritually based?" FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/why-not-hold-on-to-whatever-ive-got-because-its-96612/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Why not hold on to whatever I've got because it's as good as it's ever going to get. How can I believe that love is coming, how can I even believe that love exists; if I don't believe it's spiritually based?" FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/why-not-hold-on-to-whatever-ive-got-because-its-96612/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.










