"Winning is great, sure, but if you are really going to do something in life, the secret is learning how to lose. Nobody goes undefeated all the time. If you can pick up after a crushing defeat, and go on to win again, you are going to be a champion someday"
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The intent is practical, almost clinical: prepare for the inevitability of failure, because the undefeated myth is a trap. “Nobody goes undefeated” punctures the American addiction to spotless narratives; it insists that loss is not evidence you were never good, just evidence you’re in the arena. The subtext is about identity management. If your self-worth is welded to the scoreboard, defeat becomes a personal verdict. Rudolph proposes a different self-concept: you’re defined by your capacity to reassemble yourself after impact.
“Crushing defeat” is doing a lot of work here. It’s not a minor setback; it’s the kind that makes you doubt your body, your choices, your place. Her point is that champions aren’t people who avoid that moment, but people who can metabolize it without becoming brittle or cynical. In the broader cultural context - especially for a Black woman athlete in mid-century America - “learning how to lose” also carries a quiet politics: you don’t get to choose your obstacles, but you can choose whether they end your trajectory. Winning again becomes the proof, not that you were invincible, but that you were unbreakable enough to return.
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Rudolph, Wilma. (2026, January 16). Winning is great, sure, but if you are really going to do something in life, the secret is learning how to lose. Nobody goes undefeated all the time. If you can pick up after a crushing defeat, and go on to win again, you are going to be a champion someday. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/winning-is-great-sure-but-if-you-are-really-going-134931/
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Rudolph, Wilma. "Winning is great, sure, but if you are really going to do something in life, the secret is learning how to lose. Nobody goes undefeated all the time. If you can pick up after a crushing defeat, and go on to win again, you are going to be a champion someday." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/winning-is-great-sure-but-if-you-are-really-going-134931/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Winning is great, sure, but if you are really going to do something in life, the secret is learning how to lose. Nobody goes undefeated all the time. If you can pick up after a crushing defeat, and go on to win again, you are going to be a champion someday." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/winning-is-great-sure-but-if-you-are-really-going-134931/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.








