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Daily Inspiration Quote by Doug Larson

"Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred to talk"

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Larson’s line lands like a clean single-panel gag: the punchline isn’t just that listening is virtuous, but that it’s usually unwanted. By admitting we “preferred to talk,” he smuggles in the real psychology of conversation - ego, impatience, the low-grade thrill of being the person with the floor. Wisdom, in this framing, isn’t a halo you earn by being naturally thoughtful; it’s back pay for swallowing the urge to perform.

As a cartoonist, Larson understands compression and reversal. “Reward” sets up a merit-badge expectation, then “a lifetime” stretches it into something almost comically delayed. The joke has teeth: if wisdom only arrives after decades of resisting your mouth, then the loudest people in the room are structurally disqualified. It’s a quiet critique of cultures that treat talkativeness as competence - the meeting hero, the pundit, the guy who never pauses long enough to learn he’s wrong.

The subtext is also slightly bitter, in a way that makes it feel honest. Listening is framed as endurance, not enlightenment: something you do when you’re mature enough to tolerate boredom, ambiguity, and other people’s messy half-formed thoughts. Larson’s “preferred” acknowledges that the impulse to speak doesn’t disappear; it’s managed. Wisdom becomes less a grand intellectual achievement than a behavioral habit, built by repeatedly choosing restraint over self-display.

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TopicWisdom
Source
Later attribution: Wisdom for the Soul (Larry Chang, 2006) modern compilationISBN: 9780977339105 · ID: -T3QhPjIxhIC
Text match: 95.00%   Provider: Google Books
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... Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred to talk. ~ Doug Larson ~ If it takes a lot of words to say what you have in mind, give it more thought. ~ Dennis Roch ~ See the world as yourself . Have ...
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Larson, Doug. (2026, February 11). Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred to talk. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/wisdom-is-the-reward-you-get-for-a-lifetime-of-33573/

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Larson, Doug. "Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred to talk." FixQuotes. February 11, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/wisdom-is-the-reward-you-get-for-a-lifetime-of-33573/.

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"Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred to talk." FixQuotes, 11 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/wisdom-is-the-reward-you-get-for-a-lifetime-of-33573/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Doug Larson

Doug Larson (February 10, 1926 - April 1, 2017) was a Cartoonist from USA.

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