"Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred to talk"
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As a cartoonist, Larson understands compression and reversal. “Reward” sets up a merit-badge expectation, then “a lifetime” stretches it into something almost comically delayed. The joke has teeth: if wisdom only arrives after decades of resisting your mouth, then the loudest people in the room are structurally disqualified. It’s a quiet critique of cultures that treat talkativeness as competence - the meeting hero, the pundit, the guy who never pauses long enough to learn he’s wrong.
The subtext is also slightly bitter, in a way that makes it feel honest. Listening is framed as endurance, not enlightenment: something you do when you’re mature enough to tolerate boredom, ambiguity, and other people’s messy half-formed thoughts. Larson’s “preferred” acknowledges that the impulse to speak doesn’t disappear; it’s managed. Wisdom becomes less a grand intellectual achievement than a behavioral habit, built by repeatedly choosing restraint over self-display.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
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| Source | Later attribution: Wisdom for the Soul (Larry Chang, 2006) modern compilationISBN: 9780977339105 · ID: -T3QhPjIxhIC
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... Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred to talk. ~ Doug Larson ~ If it takes a lot of words to say what you have in mind, give it more thought. ~ Dennis Roch ~ See the world as yourself . Have ... |
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"Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred to talk." FixQuotes, 11 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/wisdom-is-the-reward-you-get-for-a-lifetime-of-33573/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










