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Success Quote by David Schwimmer

"With the success of the last three or so years, when a lot of people start treating you differently, there's a danger that you may start to think of yourself differently. You rely on your friends to say, 'Hey, wake up!'"

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Schwimmer’s line is a quietly anxious dispatch from inside the fame machine: success doesn’t just change your schedule, it changes the social physics around you. The “danger” isn’t arrogance in the cartoon sense; it’s the subtler drift that happens when rooms start laughing a beat too early, when people pre-edit their honesty because your name now carries currency. He’s describing how celebrity warps feedback loops. Compliments become easier, friction becomes rarer, and suddenly your self-image is being built from funhouse mirrors you didn’t install.

The phrasing matters. “The last three or so years” signals a specific swell - the kind that arrives fast enough to feel unreal, slow enough to seep into identity. And “start treating you differently” puts the responsibility where it belongs: on the crowd’s behavior, not the star’s supposed moral failure. Schwimmer isn’t asking for sainthood; he’s asking for calibration.

Then comes the antidote: friends as reality enforcement. “Hey, wake up!” is blunt, even a little comic, the verbal equivalent of a slapstick reset button. It’s also an admission that self-awareness alone won’t cut it when the world is invested in your myth. The subtext is almost procedural: you need people who predate your success, people who lose nothing by puncturing your bubble. In an era that markets fame as validation, Schwimmer frames it as a test of perception - and friendship as the last honest instrument you can trust.

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Schwimmer, David. (2026, January 16). With the success of the last three or so years, when a lot of people start treating you differently, there's a danger that you may start to think of yourself differently. You rely on your friends to say, 'Hey, wake up!'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/with-the-success-of-the-last-three-or-so-years-123744/

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Schwimmer, David. "With the success of the last three or so years, when a lot of people start treating you differently, there's a danger that you may start to think of yourself differently. You rely on your friends to say, 'Hey, wake up!'." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/with-the-success-of-the-last-three-or-so-years-123744/.

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"With the success of the last three or so years, when a lot of people start treating you differently, there's a danger that you may start to think of yourself differently. You rely on your friends to say, 'Hey, wake up!'." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/with-the-success-of-the-last-three-or-so-years-123744/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.

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David Schwimmer (born November 12, 1966) is a Actor from USA.

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