"With women and women, I think there's an understanding. Nobody knows what a woman feels or experiences but another woman. We are the nurturers, and there are times when we need to be nurtured"
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Plato frames the bond as knowledge ("understanding") rather than sentiment, which matters. Understanding implies lived expertise: the small humiliations, the social penalties for anger, the double binds around sexuality and respectability. Coming from an actress whose career was built under public scrutiny, that subtext sharpens. Hollywood sells a version of womanhood that is endlessly visible and rarely understood; Plato's life, marked by tabloid attention and personal instability, makes the longing for an unperformative space feel urgent.
Then she punctures the gendered job description: "We are the nurturers" is the role society assigns, but she flips it into a demand for reciprocity. The emotional labor doesn't disappear; it gets redistributed. "There are times when we need to be nurtured" is a refusal of the myth that caretakers are bottomless wells. It's not theory. It's a plea for a culture where women are allowed softness without it becoming another performance.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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Plato, Dana. (2026, January 16). With women and women, I think there's an understanding. Nobody knows what a woman feels or experiences but another woman. We are the nurturers, and there are times when we need to be nurtured. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/with-women-and-women-i-think-theres-an-131592/
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Plato, Dana. "With women and women, I think there's an understanding. Nobody knows what a woman feels or experiences but another woman. We are the nurturers, and there are times when we need to be nurtured." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/with-women-and-women-i-think-theres-an-131592/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"With women and women, I think there's an understanding. Nobody knows what a woman feels or experiences but another woman. We are the nurturers, and there are times when we need to be nurtured." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/with-women-and-women-i-think-theres-an-131592/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.







