"Without accepting the fact that everything changes, we cannot find perfect composure. But unfortunately, although it is true, it is difficult for us to accept it. Because we cannot accept the truth of transience, we suffer"
About this Quote
The subtext is a critique of the modern (and timeless) habit of treating stability as the baseline we’re entitled to. We plan, hoard, cling, refresh our feeds for reassurance, and then act shocked when the world behaves like a world: jobs end, bodies age, relationships shift, attention wanders. Suzuki’s “unfortunately” carries the weight of a teacher who has watched students repeatedly mistake understanding for acceptance. We nod along to “everything changes” until the change is ours.
Context matters: Suzuki, a Japanese Zen priest who helped establish Soto Zen practice in the United States, was speaking to communities of earnest seekers who wanted serenity without surrender, enlightenment without the humiliations of ordinary life. His rhetoric is spare and surgical: suffering isn’t framed as punishment or cosmic tragedy, but as friction. Reality moves; the mind grips; pain is the heat generated by that mismatch. The intent is practical, even sternly compassionate: if you want composure, stop demanding permanence from a universe that doesn’t do it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
|---|---|
| Source | Shunryu Suzuki — Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind (1970). Passage on impermanence/transience; commonly cited from Suzuki's teaching on accepting change. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Suzuki, Shunryu. (2026, January 15). Without accepting the fact that everything changes, we cannot find perfect composure. But unfortunately, although it is true, it is difficult for us to accept it. Because we cannot accept the truth of transience, we suffer. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/without-accepting-the-fact-that-everything-162094/
Chicago Style
Suzuki, Shunryu. "Without accepting the fact that everything changes, we cannot find perfect composure. But unfortunately, although it is true, it is difficult for us to accept it. Because we cannot accept the truth of transience, we suffer." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/without-accepting-the-fact-that-everything-162094/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Without accepting the fact that everything changes, we cannot find perfect composure. But unfortunately, although it is true, it is difficult for us to accept it. Because we cannot accept the truth of transience, we suffer." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/without-accepting-the-fact-that-everything-162094/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










