"Without getting real personal, we liked our bass player Ed. He was a great guy and he was a good bass player but his playing was suited for a different style of band"
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Then he lays down two truths that can coexist and still sting. “We liked our bass player Ed. He was a great guy” establishes basic human decency and inoculates Gramm against the charge of ingratitude. The next clause pivots from person to product: “good bass player but…” That “but” is the guillotine, softened by a technicality. The phrase “suited for a different style of band” is a carefully non-accusatory diagnosis; it doesn’t say Ed couldn’t play, just that he didn’t fit the machine the band was becoming.
The subtext is about ambition and brand. Foreigner’s sound was engineered for precision and mass appeal - radio-tight, big hooks, a polished kind of muscle. Calling it a “different style” frames the decision as aesthetic inevitability rather than personal rejection. It also preserves the band’s mythology: success required the right components, and lineup changes weren’t betrayals, they were upgrades.
Gramm’s intent is reputational management with a human face: protect the departed, protect the remaining members, and protect the narrative that the band’s evolution was purposeful, not messy.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gramm, Lou. (2026, January 16). Without getting real personal, we liked our bass player Ed. He was a great guy and he was a good bass player but his playing was suited for a different style of band. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/without-getting-real-personal-we-liked-our-bass-87779/
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Gramm, Lou. "Without getting real personal, we liked our bass player Ed. He was a great guy and he was a good bass player but his playing was suited for a different style of band." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/without-getting-real-personal-we-liked-our-bass-87779/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Without getting real personal, we liked our bass player Ed. He was a great guy and he was a good bass player but his playing was suited for a different style of band." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/without-getting-real-personal-we-liked-our-bass-87779/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

