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"Women always excel men in that sort of wisdom which comes from experience. To be a woman is in itself a terrible experience"

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Mencken can’t resist the double edge: he flatters women’s “wisdom” only to reveal the bleak mechanism that produces it. The sentence begins like an old-fashioned compliment, the kind men hand out when they want to concede something without yielding power. Then he turns the screw. Women “excel” not because society cherishes their insight, but because it forces them to learn faster, harder, and at higher cost. “Experience” here isn’t travel or romance; it’s the daily grind of being underestimated, managed, moralized, and blamed. Wisdom becomes a scar.

The key to Mencken’s intent is his cynicism about how civilizations manufacture virtue. He’s not praising womanhood as some mystical state; he’s mocking a culture that treats suffering as a training program and then congratulates the graduate. The subtext is almost journalistic: if women seem more perceptive about human motives, it’s because they’ve had to become experts in reading rooms, moods, threats, bargains. The phrase “in itself” is a tell, making womanhood sound like a condition, not an identity - a role you’re sentenced to, with penalties written into the job description.

Context matters: Mencken wrote in an era when public power was overwhelmingly male, while “female wisdom” was safely confined to the private sphere. His line pokes at that hypocrisy. It’s gallows wit with a moral aftertaste: the world praises women for surviving what it refuses to stop doing to them.

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Mencken, H. L. "Women always excel men in that sort of wisdom which comes from experience. To be a woman is in itself a terrible experience." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-always-excel-men-in-that-sort-of-wisdom-19557/.

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"Women always excel men in that sort of wisdom which comes from experience. To be a woman is in itself a terrible experience." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-always-excel-men-in-that-sort-of-wisdom-19557/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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H. L. Mencken

H. L. Mencken (September 12, 1880 - January 29, 1956) was a Writer from USA.

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