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Daily Inspiration Quote by Shawn Wayans

"Women don't like advice. They don't want you to fix their problems, they just want you to listen"

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Wayans lands the line like a punchline because it plays on a familiar domestic script: the well-meaning guy in “repair mode,” the woman cast as a riddle he can’t solve. Comedically, it works through blunt overgeneralization. The absolutism (“Women don’t… They don’t… they just…”) is the engine: it compresses a messy reality into something instantly legible, the way stand-up often does, then lets the audience nod along because they recognize the situation even if they reject the stereotype.

The specific intent is less a sociological claim than a gendered critique of conversational habits. Buried in the joke is a real observation about mismatched expectations: some people vent to be witnessed, not managed; others hear distress as a request for a plan. Wayans’ framing translates that mismatch into a relationship survival tip, but he keeps it funny by putting “advice” and “fix” in the same toolbox, implying the male impulse to treat emotions like a malfunction.

The subtext, though, is double-edged. On one hand, it nudges men toward emotional labor they may avoid: shut up, be present, tolerate unresolved feelings. On the other, it reinforces a pop-culture binary where women are “emotional” and men are “logical,” which can excuse both parties from learning each other’s language.

Context matters: as an actor-comedian, Wayans is speaking from the era of mainstream “Men vs. Women” comedy, where gender difference is the premise and the laugh comes from recognition. The line endures because it’s not only about women; it’s about how badly many of us listen when we’re busy performing competence.

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Wayans, Shawn. (2026, January 15). Women don't like advice. They don't want you to fix their problems, they just want you to listen. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-dont-like-advice-they-dont-want-you-to-fix-72334/

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Wayans, Shawn. "Women don't like advice. They don't want you to fix their problems, they just want you to listen." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-dont-like-advice-they-dont-want-you-to-fix-72334/.

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"Women don't like advice. They don't want you to fix their problems, they just want you to listen." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-dont-like-advice-they-dont-want-you-to-fix-72334/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.

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Shawn Wayans (born January 19, 1971) is a Actor from USA.

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