"Women don't like advice. They don't want you to fix their problems, they just want you to listen"
About this Quote
The specific intent is less a sociological claim than a gendered critique of conversational habits. Buried in the joke is a real observation about mismatched expectations: some people vent to be witnessed, not managed; others hear distress as a request for a plan. Wayans’ framing translates that mismatch into a relationship survival tip, but he keeps it funny by putting “advice” and “fix” in the same toolbox, implying the male impulse to treat emotions like a malfunction.
The subtext, though, is double-edged. On one hand, it nudges men toward emotional labor they may avoid: shut up, be present, tolerate unresolved feelings. On the other, it reinforces a pop-culture binary where women are “emotional” and men are “logical,” which can excuse both parties from learning each other’s language.
Context matters: as an actor-comedian, Wayans is speaking from the era of mainstream “Men vs. Women” comedy, where gender difference is the premise and the laugh comes from recognition. The line endures because it’s not only about women; it’s about how badly many of us listen when we’re busy performing competence.
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| Topic | Relationship |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wayans, Shawn. (2026, January 15). Women don't like advice. They don't want you to fix their problems, they just want you to listen. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-dont-like-advice-they-dont-want-you-to-fix-72334/
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Wayans, Shawn. "Women don't like advice. They don't want you to fix their problems, they just want you to listen." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-dont-like-advice-they-dont-want-you-to-fix-72334/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Women don't like advice. They don't want you to fix their problems, they just want you to listen." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-dont-like-advice-they-dont-want-you-to-fix-72334/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.








