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"Women have no sympathy and my experience of women is almost as large as Europe"

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A line like this lands today as a provocation, almost trollish in its bluntness: not just "women can be cruel", but women have no sympathy, period, delivered with the swagger of someone claiming a data set "as large as Europe". Nightingale is doing two things at once. She is indicting a social class of Victorian women trained to perform gentility, and she is carving out space for herself to be the exception - the woman whose compassion is practical, unsentimental, and therefore real.

The intent reads less like misogyny for its own sake than a frustrated audit of the moral economy she lived inside. In mid-19th-century Britain, "sympathy" was a gendered virtue: women were supposed to be soft, pious, charitable. Nightingale watched that ideal curdle into status-seeking philanthropy, petty rivalries, and social punishment for any woman who broke ranks. Her own career depended on refusing the domestic script; she paid for that refusal in constant scrutiny from other women as much as from men. The broad-brush insult becomes a defensive weapon: if the sisterhood won't protect you, declare it a myth.

That Europe-sized boast is telling. It's hyperbole, but also a way of claiming authority in a world that routinely denied women expertise. She can't cite institutions that would validate her, so she cites sheer exposure, range, scale. Under the cynicism sits a harder truth: Nightingale's compassion was forged in systems, not sentiments - in hospitals, bureaucracies, and death counts. Her contempt is aimed at empathy as performance, and at the social machinery that teaches women to police each other while calling it virtue.

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Later attribution: Quotationary - The A-Z Book of Quotations (Nasser Amiri, 2024) modern compilationISBN: 9780722354841 · ID: M0NZEQAAQBAJ
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... Women have no sympathy and my experience of women is almost as large as Europe. Florence Nightingale For in spite of language, in spite of intelligence and intuition and sympathy, one can never really communicate anything to anybody ...
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Florence Nightingale (May 12, 1820 - August 13, 1910) was a Activist from United Kingdom.

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