"Women hear rhythm differently than men"
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The intent reads less like a manifesto about biology and more like a shorthand for an experience he’s had in rooms where men dominate the talk and women clock the pocket faster. In band culture, “feel” gets mythologized, then policed; Costello’s claim flips the usual hierarchy by implying women possess an intuitive advantage in a domain rock tradition often codes as masculine (drums, “tightness,” control). It’s both compliment and bait.
The subtext is where it gets complicated. “Differently” can mean more attentive to micro-timing, more responsive to sway, more willing to prioritize dance over display. But it can also slide into essentialism, turning individual musicianship into gender destiny. Context matters: Costello comes out of post-punk and new wave, scenes that prized nervous precision and groove as attitude. In that world, rhythm is social intelligence - the ability to listen, adapt, and lock in. The line works because it’s trying to name that intelligence, even as it courts the cultural landmines of speaking in gender absolutes.
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